Kickstart Your Week 12-30-24
Quick recap
The meeting began with casual conversations about personal experiences and sports, followed by a discussion about the importance of commitment in achieving one's goals. The team also shared their personal and business non-negotiables for the year, emphasizing the need for internal commitment and finding a supportive tribe. The conversation ended with a discussion on the importance of accountability, setting specific goals, and the benefits of working outside, with plans for future meetings and the introduction of a new Zoom link.
Next steps
All attendees to review their goals for 2025 and determine if they are committed or just interested in achieving them.
All attendees to consider sharing their goals and commitments with their family, partners, or teammates for support and accountability.
All attendees to write down their non-negotiables and display them visibly as reminders.
All attendees to find an accountability partner to help stay on track with their goals.
All attendees to register for the new Zoom link for next year's Kickstart calls.
All attendees to consider making the Monday morning Kickstart call a non-negotiable for 2025.
Summary
Casual Conversation and Wildlife Encounters
Nino and Cathy had a casual conversation about their recent experiences. Nino shared his excitement about spotting elk near his house in Flagstaff, Arizona, and Cathy mentioned her own neighborhood's open space park where she often sees wildlife. They also discussed the power of in-person interactions versus digital communication, with Nino sharing a video about a performance art piece that emphasizes the importance of live interactions. Cathy expressed her appreciation for the video and shared her recent trip to Chicago. Nino mentioned his boredom due to the warm weather and lack of his bikes, which he had left in Phoenix. Cathy suggested he go for a long hike to enjoy the outdoors.
Football Enthusiasm and Super Bowl Shuffle
The meeting began with a light-hearted discussion about sports, particularly football, with Beth and Nino expressing their enthusiasm for the game. Cathy and Beth shared their experiences of watching football games, with Beth mentioning a disappointing game between the Packers and Minnesota. The conversation then shifted to the Eagles, with Beth expressing her excitement about their performance. Nino shared his love for sports but admitted to being a poor spectator, having not watched a football game all year. The conversation ended with a discussion about the Super Bowl Shuffle video and the mention of the Buffalo Bills.
South Jersey Bonding and Road Trip
Tony and Beth, who are from South Jersey, bond over their shared accents. Cathy suggests doing a road trip with Nino, traveling to different offices and hosting live guests. Nino proposes renting an RV, and recounts meeting a long-haul trucker who bikes for exercise during stops. They discuss the logistics of driving an RV versus a semi-truck and fifth-wheel trailer for the potential road trip.
Commitment and Personal Growth Discussed
The meeting began with greetings and introductions, with Cathy expressing her happiness at seeing everyone after the holiday season. Nino and Cathy discussed their uncertainty about the meeting's attendance, but were pleased to see everyone present. Cathy then introduced a plan for the meeting, which included some interactive elements and a special guest who would join halfway through. The meeting then transitioned into a video featuring Nino, who shared a personal story about a mentor who changed his life by asking him about his goals and whether he was committed to achieving them. Nino emphasized the importance of commitment in achieving one's goals.
Commitment and Amplifying Success
Nino emphasized the importance of commitment in achieving one's goals, stating that being "all in" leads to success. He contrasted this with being merely "interested," which he likened to being a spectator in one's life. Cathy agreed, noting that commitment allows one to overcome external factors and lead a life by design. They also discussed the power of verbalizing one's commitment to others, as it can amplify the commitment and create a different mindset. Nino suggested that writing down one's commitments could be a useful practice, referencing Bill Murphy's use of this phrase.
Sharing Goals and External Accountability
Nino discussed the importance of sharing goals with others and receiving support from a "tribe" of people. Cathy agreed, noting that sometimes people need external accountability to stay committed to their goals. Nino also shared a personal experience of working out with a friend to maintain motivation. Angie joined the conversation late, but expressed interest in the topic. The group also discussed the concept of being "committed" to goals versus just being "interested" in them.
Angie's Non-Negotiables and Realtor Relationships
In the meeting, Angie shared her personal and business non-negotiables for the year, which include meditating, reading, daily Bible reading, praying, working out, and getting a mile on the treadmill before opening her phone. She also discussed her strategy of combining tasks to save time. Cathy emphasized the importance of commitment and accountability in achieving these non-negotiables. The team also discussed the potential for building relationships with realtors through shared interests and activities outside of work.
Finding Internal Strength and Commitment
Cathy and Nino discussed the importance of internal commitment and finding a supportive tribe. They emphasized the need to rise above external validation and negativity, and to find internal strength to maintain commitment. Angie shared her personal journey of overcoming seemingly impossible challenges, such as quitting drinking and attending mass without the church burning down. Nino and Cathy encouraged the group to set specific, non-negotiable goals and find accountability partners to help achieve them. They also stressed the importance of sharing goals with loved ones and understanding the meaningful outcomes of achieving them.
Consistency, Accountability, and Zoom Updates
In the meeting, Cathy expressed gratitude for the helpful discussion and emphasized the importance of consistently asking questions to stay on track. Peter praised Angie's commitment and accountability, suggesting that she could be a tough negotiator. He also highlighted the benefits of working outside and the importance of commitment in personal and professional life. Cathy announced that the Zoom link for their meetings would be expiring at the end of the year and encouraged everyone to sign up for a new one. She also invited Katie White to join their next meeting and encouraged everyone to share the meeting details with their colleagues. Nino ended the conversation by expressing his desire for a Monday morning kickstart for the upcoming year.